Sexting

Stop talking, go texting!, originally uploaded by crickee.

Feel weird about typing dirty messages out to your sweetie through text message? Well, according to a recent article in O Magazine, women are way more turned on by text aides than visual aides. And sure, the article is talking about erotic stories versus dirty movies, however sexting (texting of a sexual nature) isn't so very far removed.

If you want to turn up the heat by sending your sweetie some naughty messages, here are a few things to keep in mind:

1. Don't use netspeak. Typing 'U' for You or 'R' for Are is not sexy. It's just dumb. Please, for the love of God, use proper English.

2. Try typing a sexy, erotic poem out. Something steamy like an excerpt from Chinese Erotic Poems.

3. Women tend to respond well to fantasy. You'll notice that the porn most women want has a storyline. Imagination is a woman's strongest erogenous zone. So try typing out a story to her in text message. Then she only gets a little at a time. It'll drive her crazy! Can't make up a story yourself? Try something from Erotic Stories (NSFW).

4. Send her a dirty picture. Get a shot of yourself as you're getting out of the shower and send it to her later on in the day, when she's not expecting it. You know how happy you would be if she did that for you? Well, chances are good that she would be equally as pleased.

5. Stick to the old standby of telling her what you want to do to her in graphic detail. Be very blunt, yet very descriptive. If you do it right, she'll be waiting for you in bed when you get home.

If she's a bit uncertain about sexting, start slowly and build up to messages that are a bit more hardcore. I would start with a sexy poem and build from there. Once she's into it, it can be a great way to keep the sexual tension building throughout the day.

I really only advise sexting if you are in a committed, trusting, relationship. Sending nude pictures to someone you hardly know isn't considered wise. Likewise, sending naughty texts to someone you just met is probably a bad idea. You never want to run the risk that the person you are sending messages to is going to flip out and forward them to random strangers. Sext smartly!