69

It's messy, uncomfortable, awkward, and kind of weird, when you think about it. It's the method of 69-ing, or simultaneous oral sex, and it is insanely popular in the world of porn. Why is that?, you may wonder. (Though if you're a guy and you're reading this, you are probably not wondering why that is.) Well, it does look like fun and it's pretty hot, in its debauchery.

Partaking in a 69 can be one of the especially self-conscious activities for a woman, and really for men too. You get a clear view of each others nether regions. But that is also a plus, because it gives you each a clear view of what to touch and where. Which can really make the whole experience very pleasant.

The biggest problem with a 69, aside from the general awkwardness of the angles, is the loss of concentration as one party achieves orgasm. Usually the man orgasms first, since he can orgasm more easily than a woman. So if she gets you over the edge, remember to keep going on her, because really it's just rude not to.

A few more pointers:

-Try not to choke her with your penis. If possible pull your pelvis back a little to give her more room to work.

-The opposite is true for you doing her. You need to be pretty much right in there.

-Remember to have pillows at the ready because your necks will probably get tired from the odd angles.

-Remember to pay attention to her clitoris. It can be hard to reach, but make the effort.

-Do a little research on different 69 positions you can try. That could make a big difference if the traditional style just doesn't work for you at all.

Hopefully I've given you a few good ideas when it comes to 69. If you have any questions feel free to contact me and I'll see if I can address them.