Massage

Tibetan massage is taught at Dharamsala, India., originally uploaded by Eric Lon.

Sensual massage can bring a whole new level of intimacy to your relationship. Women love to be touched. I especially love it when my husband lightly runs his nails over my back. So wonderful!

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A few suggestions from me:

1. Use either great smelling lotion or massage oil. I much prefer lotion because it's less mess and it makes me feel far less greasy than oil. And I get the benefit of having very soft skin afterward. If you use lotion, try heating it up between your hands for a bit before rubbing it into her skin. My husband does this and it makes the whole experience much more pleasant. Cold lotion can really startle you out of a relaxed state, which is not ideal for a massage.

2. Put down plenty of towels beforehand. It would really be a bother if your partner is worried about you getting oil stains on her 1000 thread count Egyptian cotton sheets the whole time you're rubbing her down. Not ideal.

3. Don't get stuck on her boobs, butt, or pelvis. Roam around a little more. There are a lot more places to touch than just those areas. The back tends to be really nice, but also go for the back of the thighs or lightly rub the back of her calves and knees. That feels wonderful.

4. Don't expect to have sex afterward. You might get some sex, but expecting/feeling you're entitled to it, is a turn off. Don't put your fingers in her vagina without her permission to do so before hand. It's annoying and unpleasant to have unexpected penetration. Often when a woman is being massaged it makes her sleepy. So don't be hurt or surprised if she just wants to go to sleep at the end.

Massage can be a great way to open up conversation about what feels good and what doesn't. Don't be afraid to ask her what she likes. That conversation will make a huge difference in your sex life.