Foreplay

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Foreplay can be one of those intimidating activities that men hear women want, yet they have no idea what it constitutes or whether or not they're doing it right, etc. So if you're new to foreplay and you need a few insights on how to get started, here are my suggestions:

-Start out with some light touching. Stroke her back while you cuddle. If she gets into that, you can move down to her hips and across her sides. Go slowly and get an idea for what she likes. If she stiffens up when you touch her hips, back off and go back to stroking her back because she's probably not ready for you to go very far yet.

-Kiss her neck. It feels lovely and can do a lot to get her turned on. The neck is an incredibly sensitive location.

-Moving into Sensual Massage can be a great way to ease into foreplay. It starts slow and builds in intensity and passion.

-Cunnilingus is also a popular foreplay activity and can be a nice way to end a sensual massage.

-If you need aids, try getting a set of naughty dice or something fun like a body painting kit.

-Tying each other up, dressing in naughty lingerie, or role playing are other fun ways of kicking off a night of passion.

Of course foreplay is meant to increase desire and sexual activity. So anything you do that arouses up to the point of penetration is considered foreplay. If I didn't mention something here that you would like to try, work it in slowly and see how she responds. As always, the key to an explosive sex life lies in communication. Always ask her what she likes and then make a point to do that stuff. Keep it fun and keep it sexy.